lol no. that one's mother told me off after i recommended he go to a better school to be with better influences as i know how these things often go when they hit that age. instead very soon after his mother made the decisions to estrange me from his life, this boy started hanging out with the very kids who eventually led him into drugs and delinquency. i believe many are still friends to this day. i know this because he looked me up years later and we reconnected and a few intimate conversations. among the things he told me, many of which were quite private, he told me i was like a father to him. his mother unfortunately is a major fuckup but like you, think that women/mom knows best when it comes to kids. the reality is he has a worse life than even her, which is quite the accomplishment. she also managed to brainwash him against his bio dad, who while isn't a saint, was also estranged due to the most petty thing of which i wont divulge for privacy reasons. i dont even know the guy and i take his side over this particular incident. i am strongly of the opinion that most women, like you, should keep your opinions to yourself as you types tend to yap first and think later, if ever. why not let the adults make the decisions instead? it's better for everyone and especially kids. |