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Posted by Sharpshooter on 2024-April-16 21:23:44, Tuesday
In reply to Re: Pathologizing youth agency posted by diogenes on 2024-April-16 14:42:55, Tuesday

'In the end, I feel the only way of expanding the agency of youth in the field of sex is if society comes to recognise the vital good of sex and love in the lives of the young.'

I was having a work conversation earlier today with a female acquaintance; at one point, for politeness' sake, I asked about her 13 yo son and how he was doing.

The conversation turned into a desperate and hysterical monologue from her about how her son had, with his friends, discovered porn on porn hub, and how this had totally traumatised him. From what she said it did seem that he had possibly stumbled into some pretty lewd material and I can understand his shock if this was so (the family live way out in the country and he's not a sophisticated child - there are, of course, many 13 yo's that would be unshockable in this dept.)

I couldn't help but notice that, although she 'simply didn't know what to do'. she also didn't ask if I might have had any advice for him (or her) - but this is typical of her in the continuously dramatic performance of her facebook style existence.

It's probably lucky she didn't ask anyway, as my advice would have been simple: the boy should seek out a loving relationship with a BL who would help him understand about the world of sex and love as he gently guided and supported the boy through the process of his becoming a man. It seems like a no-brainer but yes, possibly not the most practical solution in current times.

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