Ok go ahead and try to reason with him

No one is going to stop you from playing along with monkey's logic games all night long if that's what makes you happy. It's like rolling in the mud with a hog, you are just going to get dirty and the hog loves it. Have fun! But you really don't know who is a boylover and who isn't here on this anonymous chat. Do you really think many people are led astray by tpka "Tyred" claiming to be the official troll tamer or the official newbie welcomer? Didn't you know that those claims are just put in to trigger the trolls (like monkeyLostInHead) who think that they are acting on their own accord, but are actually falling right into the place that tpka "Tyred" has designated for them as a way to introduce them to the newbies? The first thing that a newbie learns is that no one here is to be trusted. In most BL and child love chat rooms there is a reminder bot who regularly reminds everyone to treat everyone as LEO and not to trust anyone, but prior to tpka "Tyred" there was no one doing that job. Go back and reread some of the welcoming messages that tpka "Tyred" gives newbies and ask yourself if those messages are intended to mislead or to prewarn. Those who rush to manipulate newbies identify themselves as control freaks and by satirizing that welcoming control freak role, tpka "Tyred" does BC a favor and helps newbies quickly realize that this isn't the warm fuzzy site it may appear to be at first glance. Earlier you said that you tend not to read tpka "Tyred's" poison. Maybe that has something to do with your simplistic and nuance free impression. You seem to be a decent guy and besides pushing back slightly on some of your assertions, tpka "Tyred" has not and will not focus on you, because you obviously are participating in BC in good faith and tpka "Tyred" mainly spends time trolling the trolls (including the newbies, half of which are sock puppets controlled by long timers). It's a free country and you can hate or distrust anyone you want to, but don't you have better things to do than to tussle with trolls online? Come on man, you're better than that. Or maybe you aren't. Time will tell.