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Posted by Jessy on 2024-April-7 14:13:29, Sunday
In reply to Adult-Child Consent: Please offer your opinions! posted by BLueRibbon on 2024-April-7 09:06:23, Sunday

understand that erotic intimacy, and sex play, passionate desires, and the joy of orgasm as a physiological reality; taking all this into consideration
I'd put myself into the moderate, to radical camp.

Sociologically speaking this idea of pleasing, or being pleased is so overly scrutinized, exaggerated, and demonized... this fundamentally is the most damaging factor that distorts what would otherwise be natural fun.

Entities such as law enforcement in all their divisions, branches, units, squads etc.. mental health, pharmaceuticals, governments, are like much any other business are seeking to grow. This can be very problematic because it necessitates marketing, advertising, and making the service a necessity.

Just like the Apple I-phone class Action law suite for having created an "upgrade download" that actually slowed the phone to ridiculous speeds that necessitated the consumer to buy a new I-Phone... it basically rendered the phone useless.

I use this analogy to demonstrate the trickery the scams that all industry and governments are ready to do to create growth.

Kidnapping, drugs/alcohol, threats, injurious assault, forcible confinement, and forcing a youth to do something that he could have never anticipated that to have happened...

These are the criteria I suggest should be at the base of any enforcement based intervention. Even a school teacher, priest, or doctor... until it is made clear that there was malicious, cruel, and opportunistic harm (such as indicated above) I still don't think it requires police intervention.

Revocation of licences, transfers, warnings are all options for the administration to consider. (internally) and only because it breaches the code of professionalism.

The way this culture teaches sex to be so dire, so serious, so disgusting, and harmful and shameful for youth to engage in is a crime in of itself! The system for profits manipulates (knowing full well) that 10's of thousands of young males will engage in sex, and yes very often with a friend their senior. Why senior? Because of trust, admiration, discretion, and simply opportunity.

As far as an age of consent, that absolutely prohibits by way of criminal ordeals and punishments I'd be reluctant to draw any line at all, for sex play is natural, desired, soothing, a confidence builder, and an exiting activity that should not be viewed as despicable conduct.

So then how can the protection of youth be guaranteed? It can't be. but with all things in life, better education, more honesty in all things, and by reducing the exaggeration, drama, and secrecy would be a good start.

Religious silliness of shame, humiliation, of making body pleasures "sinful", or demonic... well that stuff just needs to go! I'd consider that to be criminal... the unneeded duress that is spewed, that makes some so righteous and sanctimonious by making other feel shame... just complete horse shit!

Police and counsellors will always have a place, for true brutality and inexcusable harm is a part of life (unfortunately)... but this systematic, demented way of administration is beyond ludicrous.

A system that is for profit, that must grow to save the youth can never be a good thing. For myself it's time to arrest the ones that have perpetrated such harm... and you know who you are out there... SHAME!

If pressed, the age of consent for a boy to seek out, and enjoy the tingly feelings of reciprocal sexual pleasures by a friend that's caring and respectful... this age would be 9 or 10 years old. (regardless of age variance) this based on physiological realities, communication shills, and human scientific realities.

However, a child that is abducted, scared, threatened, hurt, drugged, forced or injured would be a serious, serious crime.

There in lies the reality, youth need not be sneaking out, being secret, feel shame for taking risks, or bad for having desires, youth are highly capable of being sexual without being abused.

fundamentally, that's what it comes down too, in fact way more are harmed by the system and it's interventions, then the many that share their sex without ever being "caught".
Jessy

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