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Posted by Tyred on 2024-March-31 10:08:59, Sunday
In reply to A belated welcome to tyred... posted by coonigan on 2024-March-31 00:20:26, Sunday

If a BC lurker wanted to know who these people at BC really are, all they need to do is create a nickname and join the conversations without revealing any personal details and watch how fast certain "us verses them" BCers fill in those details with images from their own subconscious. When you disagree with a narcassist they often imagine that you are "on the other team," and the team they put you on reveals their own troubled past. Like Etenne, bullied by hetrosexuals and women, sees a hetrosexual woman. Andrew_bl sees a law enforcement officer. Manny sees a social engineer infiltrating a criminal conspiracy. Certain cogs imagine a government agency planting the seeds for a future server takedown. Those who watch too much cable news see their boogyman of the year, a transgender person. All of those "us verses them" thinkers are blaming tpka "Tyred" for what they see in the mirror of their own past.

This stance is nothing new. Check out this post from last April:

"If you really want to troll the BC profilers, refuse to answer the aoa question and watch them squirm to categorize you. Categorization is the first step towards categorically dismissing everything the person says. It's a short cut that tyrants [use] to avoid listening to their critics."

it's private
Posted by Tyred on 2023-April-21 14:59:03, Friday
In reply to Undercog - are you MAP? posted by beracine on 2023-April-21 11:24:07, Friday
https://boychat.org/mbc/messages/79496.htm


It's not healthy to focus so much on the identity of those we talk to online. Only control freaks need put a handle on people in order to communicate with them. Stop listening to those who seek to divide us and actually listen to the positive, encouraging, supportive things that tpka "Tyred" says. Like this post, also from last April:

"If you are new to BC and just wondering who you should invest your precious time into reading, a lot of people recently are suggesting coonigan. You may have to take a few moments out of your busy day and think about what he's trying to say, but in a way that's ok."

Noobs need to know about coonigan
Posted by Tyred on 2023-April-10 19:27:07, Monday
https://boychat.org/mbc/messages/79459.htm


You are one of BC's few remaining treasures Coony, but this place has gone way downhill since you started participating. People used to come here to support each other and share in the experience of being a lover of boys, but these days the board is dominated by hateful, spiteful, divisive, traumatised losers who would rather no one reply to your thoughtful contributions rather than see a whimsical response by one of "them."

For example:
Simplicity
Posted by coonigan on 2023-February-18 09:36:58, Saturday
https://boychat.org/messages/1606754.htm


So you see, tpka "Tyred" has been welcoming towards you for a while now. Good of you to finally return the favor. Happy Easter!
Tyred

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