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A multiple choice question

Posted by SiB on 2024-March-29 19:26:28, Friday
In reply to Question about 'choice' posted by Nercamay on 2024-March-29 12:14:23, Friday
Welcome Nercamay!

There is no clear answer to that. Most people have a preference, but that certainly does not apply to everyone. I think it is comparable to the preference for music, or a musical instrument. Which instrument would you most like to play? It's not just about what you want, but also about what you are able to.
For myself, boys from 11 to 18 are sexually most attractive to me. A sexual relationship with an adult woman is less attractive. And there are more reasons why I feel really at home with boys. Yet there are also plenty of reasons why I ultimately lean towards a relationship with an adult woman. Intellectually she may be closer to me than a young boy; a woman gives me the opportunity to start a family with children; a relationship with her makes social interaction with the world easier and safer.
It would be great if we could live in a world we can be open and honest about our longings, wishes, abilities and preferences.

SiB
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