It's important to welcome people to Boychat, because otherwise there will never be new members. On the other hand, it is also important to leave clear warnings, to new posters, and anyone these posters might be trying to lure into a trap.
That's why you use common sense. You don't share any kind of identifying info with another person until you've gotten to know them and built up trust with them. You'll know when that time comes.
Sorry but this is terrible advice. You can't trust anybody by what they say in a chat. You can't trust them because you talk to them on the telephone. You can't trust them because you meet them. You can't trust them because they send you illegal pics. You can't trust them even when they're provably a boylover.
Trust is something very, very hard to establish. Trust is a term that shouldn't even be part of a boylover's working vocabulary.
And nobody here should trust someone as causal about trust as you.
I'm presently trying to dig up a great post by a former poster named Ghostwriter, in which he describes in great detail how he went to Mexico with a "trusted" friend from a chat, and then got in deeper and deeper into a situation he should have avoided, leading to his arrest. He died in Mexico.
Read it and weep.
If you're not a malicious user, take advice from the King and wise up before you end up in Mexico, too. | |
From his Throne,
The King of Zembla
(Boychat.org link) https://boychat.org/messages/1129412.htm
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