The trick is to realize...

... that they don't really hate you, because they don't know the real you. Of course they could still hurt the real you. So, you have to be careful, and not let them believe you are anything like what they fear. But you can dismiss their opinions about you, because well, they actually don't have opinions about you, as they don't know you. What lives in their imagination is not your concern, it is theirs. Anyway, nothing like a boy smile to give you a pass in most communities. So, if you collect smiles from boys like an investor collects dividends, you may soon become the richest man in the world of boylove (where love replaces money, though regretfully love doesn't warrant food and shelter^^) Lots of happy boys to you, FF mi lon. mute mije lili kin li lon. o sina kute e mi, mi ala wile, pilin pona mi li anpa e pilin ante.