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Re: Fem Cube

Posted by diogenes on 2023-December-1 15:05:09, Friday
In reply to Fem Cube posted by Errant on 2023-December-1 07:06:55, Friday

Zembla's piece struck me as an interesting and plausible account of why women so easily reinterpret their earliest sexual experiences, which might have been merely pleasurable at the time, as equivalent to rape. It accounts for why these women and the men whom they claim abused them seem to inhabit different realities, both quite certain that their own perceptions are correct. And this is something that needs to be accounted for, doesn't it? The terrible thing is that we are right to point to the absurdity of current sex laws and attitudes. All the real scientific evidence and all the historical accounts are on our side. So why then are us peds still the most oppressed group in contemporary western society? It seems a deeper analysis is required if we are to understand our situation.

I have often thought that male and female sexuality is simply different, that boys have a more extroverted and exploratory attitude to sexual pleasure. For most 10 year old boys, if something feels good then it is good, and if a man masturbating him or sucking his cock feels good then it is good. Without our totalitarian culture of sex panic, a boy would be unlikely to reinterpret his experience as traumatic as he grows up.

But is it not possible that girls and women experience sex differently, and that the choice of the man or boy with whom they have their first sexual experience is ultimately something of much greater import than it is to males? The gay male world pre-Aids was notoriously promiscuous, whereas lesbians showed more of a tendency to pair-bond. Surely this brief era of unrestrained sexual liberty constituted a revealing experiment showing that men and women have different sexual requirements.

Of course, this is a generalisation, and there are girls who are very libidinous in their attitudes and behaviour.

I knew nothing about Otis Eugene Ray and his "time cube". I think it's quite wonderful, though I'm not sure I entirely understand it.
diogenes

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