Re: I am struggling very much

"For instance if a man was 22 and he was dating an 18 year old girl ppl go into conniptions about weird and wrong that is, and I'm seeing this mindset spreading to the younger Generations. Everywhere I look there's some penalization. And I think it's putting a strain on social interaction and relationships. It's starting to affect me personally because ppl justifying their arguments that sounds sound on a surface level is warping my mind to start thinking maybe I'm completely wrong of my feelings of boys." You're saying that even antis against close gap relationships like 22 and 18 are making you question yourself? I'd think it would be the other way around. With the extreme concern they show for even those close in age it should be pretty obvious how absurd such opinions are and how unreliable they can be. You should be questioning your reliance on social approval. "It made me wonder if that's what ppl see if I say I appreciate boys? Am I in this category to them? What if it isn't love at all? Am I wrong?" Society thinks the worst of us. You understand this, but then you jump to wondering the worst about yourself. Know the difference.