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Re: The pain of seeing a beautiful boy

Posted by Blx on 2023-November-9 00:04:22, Thursday
In reply to Re: The pain of seeing a beautiful boy posted by PacoPascal on 2023-November-8 11:53:25, Wednesday

I feel like in my early 20s I was probably perceived as more kid or teen adjacent so it's almost nice to other folks to see a young adult embrace and interact with kids. I feel ppl (older ppl) see it as inspiring and being selfless. (Older teens and young adults my age saw it as strange or a waste of my time) but I also believe it was at a place I grew up so I knew ppl and ppl knew me. I now live in a new state as a 31 year old and still hardly know ppl, despite my outgoing and social personality and charisma, I am not close to adults( due to living in a very individualistic place) so me trying to be close to random children I feel would be more alarming. So my circumstances don't allow me for such interactions and relationships. A Lot Ppl still think I look very young, they think I'm 25 even though I'm 31 so that's cool.. but not good enough to talk to random kids on the train I feel.

I'm starting to think it's more of my location than my age right now though. I think the social politics, ideals, tolerance and understanding are different and feel it hinders me a little bit. The only way I can interact with kids in full would have to be getting employed at a school or something. which I'm not really trying to do right now.

I do miss the good ol' days though. I won the trust of not only kids but also their parents. I miss getting to cuddle, tickle and rough house with boys I had interest in. I miss them asking for me, asking their parents if I can come over and all of that 🤣 I also miss pursuing the ones I liked and feeling accomplished when I actually win them over and they love me 😂 haven't felt that in a few years..

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