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Maybe wear sunglasses?

Posted by Errant on 2023-October-13 07:13:28, Friday
In reply to Can I ask posted by pepper on 2023-October-13 03:54:10, Friday
I can understand worrying about others noticing you when a boy grabs your attention. It just takes a lot of practice to not be so obvious about where you're looking. Maybe wear sunglasses for a while if it helps you build up your comfort level being out in public. The downside is that sunglasses make it difficult to make eye contact with boys which is crucial if you want to be able to chat them up once in a while. You'd be surprised how easily some kids will just straight up say "Hi" to you just by shooting them a look and a polite smile as you walk on by. But it'll never happen if you're too afraid of being noticed. Just don't stick around if you don't have a good excuse and you'll be fine.

Errant
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