Not in order, sorry for the inconvenience! Fact: In 99% of the cases in which a pre-teen had sex with an adult their parents' age, the adult was the one who initiated the sexual "playfulness" That’s not a fact, just a completely made-up statement you pulled out of your ass! Fantasy: Pre-teen boys find older people (in their fifties, bald and pot-bellied) attractive. Some of them might! Everyone has different preferences, and just because YOU didn’t want to have sex with hairy old men as a boy, doesn’t mean no one else does. Some boys are homosexual. Some boys don’t care so much about whether their partner is super attractive physically, and are more drawn to the idea of being with a trusted friend with whom they have a close bond. Who elected you the decider of what every single boy in the world does or doesn’t want :P Reality: Most preteens have no interest in having sex with adults their parents' age. Nope! This is also made up. Many boys are attracted to adults! When I was a pre-teen boy, I found adult women attractive. So do many other boys; many others are attracted to men. I get the impression that you’re just making sweeping generalizations about what boys are like, and then purporting these generalizations to be the truth! Fantasy: Preteens who have consensual sex with an adult like it. Fantasy? More like common sense! Reality: If you wear red, chances are you were mistaken for Santa Claus. What if boys want to have sex with a Santa Claus-esque man? See above, about people (i.e. boys) having different preferences Reality: Pre-teens who have sex with adults, in most cases it is for the following reasons:Prostitution, cheating, abuse of power, rape. Rape is bad, cheating is bad, abuse of power is bad, and prostitution is probably bad (that’s a separate discussion). None of these things are the same as consensual sex! What about all the non-rape, non-cheating, non-abusive, non-prostitutive man-boy sex? Most likely, all the rapey-cheaty-prostituty sex is in the minority. |