... the whole point of the sexual abuse hysteria is to keep it secret, although they would pretend the contrary of course. Kids can't tell about their sexual experience with a man in the society we live in. They wouldn't be listened to. They can only endorse the role of victim, which is very different. Some 50 years ago, PIE made some interesting suggestions about how a boy could tell the institutions about his experience and get some support and even restorative justice, if need be. That's certainly the kind of initiative I would support. Children should get protected against abuse, without risking institutional abuse on top of it. Unfortunately, our society use kids as scapegoats and sacrifice them by marking them as irreparable victims if they have any sexual contact with an adult. This is intolerable and a total disrespect of the exercise of their agency. Lots of happy boys to you, FF mi lon. mute mije lili kin li lon. o sina kute e mi, mi ala wile, pilin pona mi li anpa e pilin ante. |