My "favorite" example of this was about 8yrs ago with a 12yr old yf. Both of us saw something written that looked like it said "something something sperm". Ended up it was just misspelled, but we both busted up laughing when we saw it and laughed about it all day. When his mother came by to pick him up I told him not to tell her. Not because it was horrible, or she would dislike me, but because she wouldn't think it was funny. Literally as soon as we got in the car he blurted out the joke to her. She just rolled her eyes and said "boys!" Obviously not all kids are the same, but most don't have much of a filter on their mouths, which isn't always a bad thing. This isn't the main, or only, reason I think having sex with minors is a bad idea. Their candor can lead to lots of funny jokes, but I wouldn't count on a kid keeping a secret. |