I'm more or less exclusive. So in terms of my dating and sex life? Being a BL has pretty much killed it. It is very unlikely that I will ever get married or ever be anything other then single. And if I want children, the traditional biological route is pretty much off limits. So in that sense, it's definitely had a major impact. In most other parts of my life though? Not really. In terms of my job, my social life, my hobbies, etc. it has really had nearly no impact. So I guess in summary it's forced me to be single. But other then that BL has not made me much different then any other single person I know. Well, I suppose I do have this weird second identity that I live out in BL internet support groups. So there is that. |