Give them a break. The entire community was divided along the lines of gender preference. If you would like to collaborate on a gender-neutral behavioral guide, drawing upon all such observations posted by the OP on the last 3 indexes of BC, then you are welcome. There are already 2 major mediawiki-based platforms that would be willing to distribute a properly composed and updated behavioral guide to compiment the highbrow online safety guide that is already being composed by one such group. ![]() |