You hear it a lot, but for a male as soon as an erotic sexual act is shared the "unconditional" becomes notions of "a groomed deception", "an abusive act", or "a predatory assault". the youthful male, partner in arousing intimacy.. becomes a victim, and in the humiliation of being completely exposed, and shamed his own desires turned now to perceived "weaknesses" by the PhD psychologist, is encouraged to lash out, and like a rapid wild animal seeks retribution for an abuse, and violence that never was. Incredible how opportunistic deception, like a virus enters the host with lethal stealth, infects, and transforms like a demonic possession. The unconditional Love component is trashed, incarcerated, forgotten while the guilt ridden shell is forced to infect again. |