I had friends who were boys, for years and years before one ''came on to me''. only one, in some twenty years, ever wanted my body. and there were over fifty boys who i spent time with. we played baseball, football, soccer, hockey, board games, slot car racers, we played visual games in cars (the ones where you have to spot a certain designated thing-first) we even played ''rock, paper, scissors''(but we never added 'Spock'), all because THEY wanted to. the most disheartening thing i ever dealt with in a boy, was one who was afraid of horses. |