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That’s true.

Posted by Grenfield on 2020-October-21 03:38:31, Wednesday
In reply to On feeling intrusive... posted by Jumpr on 2020-October-19 12:25:54, Monday

They are giving pretty “unprecedented” access. I guess in a way a part of me still feels a bit stuck on the whole “what if they change their mind later and feel regret” way of thinking a lot of the time, which (again) I know is irrational because it implies that somehow I know more about how they may feel about themselves than they do, which makes zero sense.

Every so often I’ll fall into a worm hole where I’ll start following a boy’s life online, and then I’ll stop and be like “I shouldn’t be doing this” and I quit and move on. But then sometimes I’ll look and see that these kids often have enormous audiences of people who will compliment them and shower them endlessly with words of love, wisdom, and appreciation. And I see that and I think to myself, why can’t I just do that if so many others can without any hesitation?

You make some good points. Like you said, it’s a total win-win.

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