It's so important that you say, NOT just what YOU

want... but what YOUR younger friend wants, and what length he's willing to go to also receive the satisfaction of intimacy HE'S seeking. What lies are boys telling their parents to seek out the sex they're after.... What activities, and arrangements are they making that give them that opportunity. And this goes on and on, I have seen it, and experienced it. So when you're asked about why it's important to you, equally as important is to educate that it's very much a reciprocal desire of naked affection that is desired... and that it would be totally unsatisfying if the arousal of the youth wasn't himself through the roof. The urgency of a boy to get his pants off, and into action is astonishing. This is to boast, or try and win an argument... it's the factual truth and the desire to achieve an orgasm at say 10 or 11 yrs old is just the truth. So to prohibit sex until 16 or 18yo is just criminal, cruel, and a deliberate game of humiliation for profit $$. This by no means that every boy will want sexual gratification with someone older, some may chose younger or whatever... some not at all. The point in all this is not to emphasize your wants, but always the mutual and reciprocal "fun-fair" that intimacy brings you both.