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On the cusp of puberty

Posted by Foareyez on 2020-June-2 14:16:14, Tuesday
In reply to What is your aoa? posted by Dgennero on 2020-June-1 23:00:49, Monday

Good topic Dgennero. We talk about aoa frequently in lifeline chat. This is one of our defining characteristics and I think sometimes people don't even know their own aoa until we hear the term aoa and think about the people we have been attracted to and for some (but not all) boylovers, there is a particular age range we are attracted to and frequently a "peak boy" is around a certain age. Me personally my aoa is a range from 8 to 16, with a sweet spot right around 11.

For me innocence is an adorable trait, in an adorable child, but education and self confidence are even more adorable. I used to buy weed from a guy who identified as a sapiosexual (someone who is attracted to learning and awareness). We had some good bullshitting sessions on his back porch. He could be a bl or gl because he finds it so gratifying to see the darkness of ignorance drain out of a kids mind, to be replaced by knowledge and comprehension. This is how I feel about innocence, its ok as a temporary state in a yf, but I want to see them learning and changing over time showing how they are growing up and making progress in their mind and body. That is deeply attracting to me.


When i say my lower aoa boundary is about 8 years old, that's because 8 yo is close to 11. I can see the traits that I'm sexually attracted by sprouting up in a 8 yo and depending on the boy. I get excited just thinking about how his body is ripening up. There is no denying that a boner popping up on a boy of this age will be beyond just a cute little penis. But below that age doesn't attract as much. I have thought a lot about the lower limit of my aoa. When I first started hanging out on boychat I got to icq and aim chatting with lbls who like tots and kindergarteners. They acted a little wounded to hear me say I only like big boys. How can you be so close minded towards an authentic person with feelings and passions and he needs love. That plus I was pretty young back then and I remember having kindergartener yfs when I was a young teenager. You can't deny that they are cute and charming. Everyone who plays with babies and infants knows that even babies flirt and its fun to connect with them. I have felt sexually aroused seeing a little boner pop up is so cute and I love how little kids are so comfortable in their skin. Adults, teens and tween boys often worry about dick size, but little kids are used to everything being small and they work with they got and its cute as hell.

But maybe like Jessy was saying little kids are like corpses, I've been thinking why did he say that the other day? Of course they aren't stinking rotting disgusting dead bodies.

But he is right to say something is missing in a little bitty kid. Like ok, heres an example. We were talking to a little group of boys last night and I brought out the soap bubbles. As we were fooling around, I asked one young pal, "Do you remember blowing Bubbles last summer?" YEAH....? "Well, he's back in town looking for you." The group of like 6 boys just kind of grinned confused. They had no idea what I was joking about.

Or if you have seen the tv show Westworld where the android robots are programmed not to understand certain topics, such as their own design. "It doesn't look like anything to me," they say disinterestedly. That's how talking to little kids about complicated topics feels to me. I do like being with little kids at times and it is a fun challenge to translate my adult thoughts and ideas into a language he can understand. You can teach a tot about love, friendship and being passionate about life, and he can teach you a lot, but there is never going to be the same kind of passionate sexual connection in the kids perspective before his hormones grow in. I think in a free and natural world people have sex in front of kids just like we do in front of the pets, I think thats perfectly natural. And if when we be natural a little kid was around it would be funny to see them copy the grown ups and pretend to have sex, but I honestly feel like the sex people have with a little kid is more for the grown ups enjoyment than the kids. A kid would be just as happy or happier going swimming or playing a different game. Maybe it would be fun for them to experience something new, but regular sex with a little kid makes me think it would be like giving them a haircut. You would have to train them and sooth them and control them a lot, because I imagine you are horny and can't wait to bust that nut and he will be like la la la boing boing boing all around the room. But you see kids doing all kinds of high focus stuff from sports to gymnastics and they can be trained to get the job done sexually for a grown up. Maybe for a lot of lbls it would feel good to just molest a little kid, since he might not realize why you are doing what you are doing. I know its wrong to touch sleeping or unconsenting kids, but its not as wrong as doing something mean. Everyone draws the line in the place we draw it and I think thats for you to choose how you enteract with kids and I trust many of you will make the fun choice that feels so exciting in the moment. Especially 12 yo boys who start being sexual with the lil kids in the rooms with them when they get horny. Are we going to blame a horny teen for sticking his dick in everything vaguely hole shaped because his instincts are pumping hormones? I don't blame the kids for all the sex they are having with little kids, and I don't blame grown ups who do it either. It's natural. It happens. We can't look down as old men and say hey youngsters don't do that. But that kind of talks about my views on liking lil tots. Just because its not for me does not mean its unimaginable or crazy to think about. The lower end of my aoa isn't established because loving younger kids than that is "bad," but rather its because younger kids don't resonate with me sexually.

The top part of my aoa happens as the soft sexy parts of my yfs melt into grown up gristle and scruff. These people are also like animals to me, like I was saying the other day, I can imagine the mechanics of fucking a sheep, donkey or grown up human, but those thoughts aren't arousing to. Whereas maybe the little kids might be attractive sexually if they had a different attitude to sex, a grown up isn't sexy even when they have a great attitude towards sex. In fact my favorite attitude for adults to have to me is indifferent. When they act attracted, I feel uncomfortable and try to avoid that.

Why 16? Actually it really depends on the boy. A boy who I have liked for a few years used to be so sweet and pretty with the softest chubby moobs, but then he stayed inside all winter and this spring when he came out he was a lot fatter and his hair is shaggy and he's been wearing these big mafia style ray ban sunglasses and he has been grouchy, scowling frequently, even though I still like him and support him as a friend and neighbor, I don't really get much of a thrill from his touch or giddy when he talks to me like I used to. I just like sweet pretty exuberant sexy boys and when they start getting course like adults i just don't feel attracted anymore.

So funny thought is dawning on me. As far as sexually I have two components, physically attraction and spiritual/mental. Young boys are physically attractive, but I am not attracted sexually to their personalities. Grown ups are the reverse, I may think they have a sexy personality, but their body isn't what I like. It all depends on the individual combination in the guy. Maybe I would be attracted to a bit younger boy (as low as 7 or 8yo) if I like his mature attitude, and maybe I would like twink if they aren't too gross, but at the end of the day I don't pay much attention to making those edge cases work. I'd rather focus on boys in my sweet spot.

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