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An old yf

Posted by wheel on 2020-May-29 09:27:52, Friday
In reply to Catch feelings vs bros with benefits? posted by Foareyez on 2020-May-29 06:29:54, Friday

I was on the phone last week with an old YF. He is a special one. Quickly became a regular adult friend when he grew up. Most young friends grow out of you and move on. Now we are actually closer than when he was a boy. When he was younger he totally selected me as his friend and did everything he could to be around me. awwwww. I loved him in a deep way that I am not able to fully articulate. I was the mentor he was looking for.

When we go out to catch up over coffee we can sit and talk for three or more hours without any problem. But he is a man and I still love him but differently. The attraction is just not there and even when he was in my aoa he was just average. But he is a sweetheart and his new family is the same way and they love me too.

In contrast I had a super hot young friend once. He has been living his nightclub and banging different girls and drinking heavy every night life since he was a teenager. No calls these days. Years ago I called him and no answer unless I bugged him a few times. I gave up trying long ago. If you are anyone other than some big titted tart he did not bother with you. He is well old enough now to settle down and be responsible with his life but he is not. I blame his fucked up parents for that but that is a longer story for another day.

The second boy was great when he was younger and I spent way more time with him than the first boy. Arguably we were closer and would jump up and down so excited when we got together. Nothing bad ever happened with him he just drifted away.

But it is the first boy the sweetheart who gave me a reason to be happy in a deep way that transcended any other boy I have known. I smile when I think about him. If there is a god above I pray for him because he is just such a good person that I want everything to go his way. He deserves it! I started tearing up just writing this and this 'boy' has been a man for a long time now but I just love him so much!
wheel

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