Of course. Believe it or not, boys are merely other human beings, despite the many pedos who love to go on about their angelic and otherworldly qualities. I do that too sometimes. In any relationship there will conflicts and you will get pissed off. The point if you're in a relationship with a child, I believe, is to model managing your emotions in a healthy way. For example, if you're angry, you might say You did X and I feel Y. I would prefer that you not do that. So many minor-attracted people have had few relationships, or not had them in a context where they could be fully-realized relationships without the adult having to watch everything all the time, and that has left many of us stuck in our heads fantasizing about ideal boys and ideal relationships with them. That doesn't matter incredibly, at the moment, since so few MAPs ever get even to befriend a boy (and rarer still that the adult is not always anxious about it in ways that people in approved relationships never have to experience). When we get emancipated, MAPs will go through a confusing time of realizing it's not a non-stop honeymoon, that regular relationships come with regular problems. What I wouldn't give for that. And, yes I have gotten mad at boys and expressed that in healthy ways, and it made the relationships stronger |