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Don't tell him you're a pedophile

Posted by Icarus on 2020-May-27 18:11:57, Wednesday
In reply to Going to the psychologist for the first time posted by charles on 2020-May-27 13:05:57, Wednesday

He's either a sex therapist used to treating court-ordered child rapists and will focus everything on making sure you stay away from children (and will hate you), or he's a regular therapist who has never had someone confess to being a pedophile and will freak out (and hate you). You'll get nothing productive out of it.

If your family members tell him you confessed already, tell him you're strongly attached to children and childhood probably from stunted emotional development, but it's not something sexual at all. Tell him that's just not a concern. If you had confessed to your family that you were sexually attracted to children, tell your therapist you did it just to get a rise out of them but it's not actually true.

Therapy will eventually get around to your interpersonal and romantic relationships. Tell him you're hopeful for a romantic interest (whether male or female) but say you're insecure about getting serious with somebody right now while you still have these other issues to address. Again, your goal with therapy is to address those issues, NOT sexual relationships.

Do NOT confess to being a pedophile.


Icarus

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