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Posted by Foareyez on 2020-May-19 05:55:03, Tuesday
In reply to If I may stray off topic a bit... posted by Errant on 2020-May-19 01:32:31, Tuesday

I bet you that a regular stream of explicit frankness could heal the world, reminds me of how gay people and other minorities spoke up frequently to remind the dominant groups to take their perspective seriously. We're here, we're queer, get used to us!

This idea pertains to child sexuality when it comes to young rappers, such as lil barnacle, who sings about his sex life using a boy voice and boy perspective. He promotes the idea that kid sexuality exhists.

This relates to one of my biggest sexually formative issues was growing up in a sex negative house, surrounded by people who refused to admit that boy sexuality even exists outside of perverted sinners, it gave me a big feeling of alienation. Then later on in life it makes me glad and happy inside to see that ignorance fade away.

Maybe that's why I get a boner from just talking to yfs about sex. When a boy talks about what he likes and thinks about and does, I feel so gratified that he respects me to share these intimate moments. I feel aroused to just notice him getting aroused. I really like having these interactions, but I wouldn't want to get caught. Getting caught wouldn't mean going back to prison (I don't think), but if his strict parents knew they would restrict him talking to me about it.

I don't know exactly what is a virped. I remember a recruiter coming on here recently with a scheme for pedophiles where they believe any sex between grown ups and kids is a bad idea. I didn't feel interested enough to get involved with that program. Maybe I should invest more time in learning about this.

To the point of being amoral: that's a great point. We wouldn't want to go around being amoral. This is exactly why we have to think about how we make a decision which reflects our values.

What's our main values? Well to ask a lot of us (including the lil guys) for a lot of people the #1 value is don't get caught. They have this value for a reason. They don't want to get punished. This makes perfect sense, but what else.... Just not getting caught is a baseline condition for a good relationship. Avoiding getting caught means avoiding the restrictions that follow.

I think all of us are anti contact sometimes. Like with young kids who can't keep a secret. With kids who don't seem into it. With ugly kids. With blabbermouth kids, even if they are not little. With relatives. Even with a kid we have contact with, often we wouldn't want to have contact because the time is not right. Another reason to not have contact would be something about it violates our values somehow.

That's the question I think some of the guys struggle with, how to decide whats my own core values and how do I carry them out in my life. Getting caught was just an example.

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