Eventually its going to be obvious that he had sex, such as when he has children of his own, but as for today he doesn't want his parents knowing what he does. I didn't mean that the authorities may never know about family relationships, just I don't want their agents watching the intricacies of sexual behavior. Interesting, two responses here and both seem to be challenging the premise of my OP, which was (I thought) how to discover what is good to do vs what is a choice with unacceptable consequences. Getting caught was just an example of a negative consequence to avoid, but in my mind there is a big world of stuff we can do that isn't likely to lead to getting caugt, and I have no problem doing those behaviors, such as for exaple saying I love you to a yf or talking about how biology works with a yf, or listening to a yfs dreams and fantasies. There are many things I can do that even if someone caught me red handed with a hidden camera in my house watching me, it might make me look "bad" (expose me as a likely pedo) but if its nothing illegal we probably wouldn't get really harmed if we get caught. |