Who ever said it was on a spectrum?

You seem to put it on a 2 dimensional time timeline (axes a to b) Picture boylove (the act) having a horizontal, vertical, & diagonal point of reference, now add a 3 dimensional context (a cube),.. now add layers of "actions" up, down all around... Now let's add a 4th dimension, call it feelings, spiritual, chemistry and put the this 3D cube of possible actions into this 4D sphere of actions... And now, I'm gonna go out on a limb here and ask you to consider a 5th dimension, a gigantic 5D trapezoid that has all kinds of actions we as humans could never even begin to fathom exists ... Boylove, and every different scenario of a male youth exchanging passionate, physical, sensual, erotic act of adoring and lustful intimacy are all over the entire universe of "inbetweens" and possibilities. A horny boy making out, with an older or younger friend is much more than just 1 action.