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Cognitive dissonance

Posted by Rex on 2020-May-15 16:52:46, Friday
In reply to How does us being exposed affect our boys? posted by kipling on 2020-May-15 08:45:11, Friday
I guess they may antagonise their AF in order to cope with the difficult feelings of losing a beloved friend.

"Well, he was a pedophile anyways... Why would I miss him?"

Or maybe not, some boys may continue loving their former friend even after losing contact. It depends on the person, nothing is guaranteed to end up good or bad. I think some variables may be at play here, such as: how much the yf loved you (which makes it more likely that he will keep loving you), how much his new perception of you affected him emotionally (which makes the opposite more likely), things like that...

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