I get the question. I honestly hadn't had any physical stuff with anyone since I was a kid myself. I am severely deprived haha. If I were to guess I would say that the physical stuff wouldn't have been damaging if they weren't forced. I think the irrational craziness that people associate with sex just blows things out of proportion. For instance my father while bringing me up emotionally and mentally abused me. Why isn't he in the news? Sometimes they call it nowadays "disciplining". Haven't we all been price gouged? Why isn't that all over the news? Maybe sometimes when an adult and a child have sex there will be some kind of errors, why are these errors blown out of proportion? A person can swindle his/her business partner "with intentional malice" and spends a few months in prison, why would a loving sexual relationship, with natural errors, send an adult to jail for the rest of his life? We know that iatrogenic factors affect the kids, meaning that the sex and relationship themselves don't create problems, but the external factors of, for instance, abusive police interrogation where they steer the kid to think that it was wrong, and the general phobia from adult-child sex will affect a child. Supposedly that's why even if we think that sex between adults and children is not wrong, it's better not to do it because of the iatrogenic factors on the kid. |