I am curious to hear about all of your opinions on what you think is right and what you think is wrong. It's difficult to understand the rights and wrongs of being a boylover and pedophile in general when society tells you everything you do is wrong and your very being is a mistake. I don't want to end up like Alan Turing, an innocent man who was convinced by society that there was something wrong with him and that he needed "treatment". Despite his contributions, despite his brilliance, he was persecuted and tortured to death. His redemption after his death is of zero consolation to his miserable life and i don't give two shits when one day people wake up from their ignorance and/or find another group to persecute. On the other hand, I don't want to hurt people. I don't want to hurt boys most of all. I'm old enough now that a few of the boys I've loved have grown up and the consensus is that I was a significant part of their lives and that I was a father to them. That being said, I never fooled with them although I'm sure the suspicions were/are there of what I am. Is fooling around harmful? Are there degrees of harm? One of my challenges is that it's hard to tell the difference between the bullshit that society tells you and the truths embedded within. What is best for a boy? What boundaries physical and emotional should there be? I know your opinions will vary from person to person but I am really looking for vast array of opinions on this so I can maybe glean some ideas from the aggregate. |