One can understand judging and blaming people for their *actions*, such as having sexual contact with children, but how how can you blame people for something which they have no control over, such as having sexual attractions and desires and fantasies that are considered unacceptable? Besides the fact that these in themselves don't harm anyone, there is the fact that we can't control our attractions and desires and fantasies.. to condemn people for what they have no choice and control about is completly irrational.. |