It's the steering of this subject towards a narrative of abuse, domination, hurt, and distrust... Nothing can be further from the truth! adjectives (cause this is what it really all about) like fun, feels great, confidence, joy, anticipation, play time, and on and on those truthful words cannot ever be associated at all with boys, men and passion. The sneaking of a cookie before supper, the swig of gin between "friends", diving off the high rock, doing a "wheely" on your bike, climbing on the roof of the school, or sucking that cock... all should be considered normal, but as the influence of feminism takes hold, and issues become hysteric, terrifying, abusiveness, controlling, we as males become seized in a paralysis of guilt, wanting no more but to be alone and depressed. Sad how the past 50ish years or so of "women lib" has turned the tables on men, and for no benefit at all, just high priced maintenance just got even more expensive and domineering. |