I would also highly recommend not to lie or to pretend to have feelings that you donĀ“t have. This would be very unfair and could hurt her deeply sooner or later. Besides that you are not obliged to tell her everything. You can tell her that in this point of your life you can not tell her everything about your life. It seems she wants the friendship with you too (although it seems maybe she wants more). So just stay honest and just keep it a friendship. Not always easy, but possible. Maybe in x years you can speak with her about everything. But to come out is often dangerous and often gives new big problems so better keep it a secret now. Good luck. |