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Posted by Hieron on 2017-April-24 03:32:26, Monday

I wanted to reply to all of you who responded to my introduction post, and I wanted to do it with just one post, and share other thoughts. A new one post/thread seemed to make sense.

Thanks for lots of warm welcome, guys. It was a almost overwhelming. Hi back to MWM, Larry, Grenfield, Middy, Riley, Frenchy, Peanut, Butch, Infinity Ex!

I hope more people who just read here, go ahead and register, and share (discreetly) on Boychat.

By the way, haha, you guys wrote to set my expectations at Boychat to rock bottom. But you were way too friendly and relate-able in the process, so I’m not exactly running for the hills. Excuse my sarcasm. Thanks again for the friendliness. I guess the long time posters learned long ago that those online trolls are toothless.

It’s more important how you make people feel, than what you say.
Thanks MWM and Grenfield for sharing some of your personal stories, and relating to mine. Thank you, and Frenchy, for taking time and being so thoughtful in your replies.

Larry thank you for endorsing my platform :D If running for President, you’d have to be my nominee for a Secretary of Dept. of Boy Empowerment. That way I know I can keep my reform promises :D

Kudos on sacrificing the comforts of the first world, old friends, and family support, to build an honest home life MWM. And you’re still able to juggle it all. Hope you continue to share (more of) those BM’s you’re comfortable putting out here.

Grenfield that save the world complex should keep you on the right track. You did the right thing not confiding in your sister, as far as my experience goes. I’m going to offer some advice if you don’t mind. I don’t mind if you take it or not! I think you might do well to solidify and channel your finances, professional references, and community support, into relocating somewhere you can be more true to yourself – sooner rather than later. That would be the smart way of avoiding a midlife crisis which might take otherwise the form of relocating with little backing behind you, or sinking into melancholy. It’s not going to be a matter of hurting no one. It’s about hurting them a lot less. You’re also a person. Kudos on what you do for your boys, and keeping your own rules.

Frenchy I agree with your points, and will factor that into my thinking. You probably aren’t an introvert. Maybe you’re just socially restrained in the company of children while keeping adult opinions in mind. You would probably otherwise be super extroverted – if there weren’t adults around and there was little judgement from the community when kids went home. Perhaps you can set out to find a niche, someone on this earth, to be yourself. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and journey with us for now.







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