A former yf got arrested for smoking pot. He is a sweet, naiive teen and confessed to everything when the cop promised to take it easy on him. Now the courts have sentenced him to probation. The part that bothers him the most is the drug tests. The officers have to see the pee coming out of his penis and into the cup. He finds it a dehumanizing and emasculating experience. Drug testing is a kind of legalized molestation. It's hard when our yfs grow up. I would like to protect him, but there is nothing I can do. Sad to see the innocence slowly drain away as they grow up, but I guess that is the price we all pay for wisdom. |