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We've been reviewing some of the first things we've ever talked about...you know, when it felt like they were trying to cure pedophilia. We talked about this spectrum...of sexual interest, arousal and behavior...how we can't control our attractions, can somewhat control out arousal, and have complete control over our actions. We talked about the RICE filter. RICE stands for respect, intimacy, consent and equality. Where this ties into sex with kids...is that it has to go through all four parts of the "filter" or else it's something you shouldn't do. Respect is like if you each have respect for each other, and intimacy is obviously the relationship you have in general. Of course, the "trick" areas of this are the "consent" and "equality" parts. Did the kid consent willingly and knowingly aware of what it was that they were consenting to? They use an example like with a mugging. If you point a gun at me and say, "Give me your money" I would be threatened to do it. If you asked "Will you give me your money, and you better say yes" you'd be forcing the "yes" out of me through threatening with the gun. Equality means an equal understanding...like, apparently a kid has to know as much about sex as I do, or I need to know as little as they do... If this sounds like lunacy to you, let me quote BoyChat... YOU'RE NOT ALONE! We've also talked about my ideal relationship with a kid, but I think we're going to have to have another chat about that one... |