you don't know me.

in my country, the United States of America, men CAN still spend time with children. in my time, I had a whole troupe of the monkeys (9 through 14 years of age) six at a time, and sometimes more, spending the night. that was both when I was married and before. I know that there are others out there doing the same thing, they are just too busy to read this message board and if they found it somehow, they would do just like I did years ago, save it to favorites to reference at a later date and go on back to the boys and the fun. dude. all you have to do is open your heart, and the boys will climb right in. warning, once in, you will NEVER get them out. (even if you would want to)