nope, you dont have to forgive her. Did she forgive you or your sister, when you were small, and had done something that annoyed her? It doesnt matter that shes your mum. You owe her nothing. Sure , if she had been a nice, caring, loving mother, then you would want to be with her, take care of her. There is no obligation. Has she ever shown any remorse, or care, or interest in you? This is why I keep recommending therapy. You have all this stuff to work through. |