I would not know how to reply, most of the relationship I have start on a physical side before evolving to some more long term relationship. Like at the pool, a boy will start playing with my boys, and I will naturally play with him, throw him in the air, like I do my boys. Even when I am not with my boys in fact. Being foreigner, my physical differences attract the boys, so they will start rubbing the hair on my arms, etc. But hey, I live in a human society, where physical contacts are treated like they are, a human thing :) I think I posted a message, few days ago, about how I spent one afternoon, with some completely stranger boys and it ended up being very physical, them climbing on my back, punching me in the stomach (under 12, they don't punch hard, unless they are boxer), etc. |