I can accept such fuzzy terminology, but can't accept any theory that makes it appear as though we have no control over ourselves and the thoughts we have and the sexual behaviours we exhibit. The overwhelming history of evidence points toward people having a great deal of control over their behaviour if they actually try. Which is not to deny that we are created with some types of personality traits that are heritable, and enduring despite best efforts to minimise so-called 'bad' traits. I would accept that certain personality traits would lend themselves more strongly toward creating repeatable sexual behaviours.. but ultimately we are all masters of our own destiny and we choose the directions we go in, including the types of thoughts we indulge or reject, sexual or otherwise. |