my stepson?

he is in denial. he says that he is only doing recreational drugs, but he can't stay away from them. he has too many kids (two boys, three gurls, at last count) that he can't afford to take care of. maybe it's because of the drugs that he can't or won't hold a job. he needs help. but the courts say I have to stay away from him, and his mother is strung out now too. my foster son? the last time I saw him he was living with a gay dude and had some young girl to grind hips with to make him feel like a man. I may sound a little harsh about him, but I have my reasons. He has love to share, but he can't let go of the drugs either. the gay dude he lives with is disabled from a car crash and is on pain medication all of the time. so it is easy for ''foster Jimmy'' to obtain them without even leaving the house. but I do love them, it's just that there is nothing I can do to help them.