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Welcome to BoyChat, Luigi. I see you've gotten acquainted with martirwithacause. Quite a charming fellow is he, no? I just wanted to warn you about a few things. First, martir has made a great many enemies here, and it's not entirely his fault. Some of the attacks on him early on were unwarranted in my opinion. At first he did a very good job of not letting it get to him. He even frustrated his enemies because he seemed unphased by their provocations. But eventually they got to him, and it unleashed a monster. I was on good terms with him up until that point. When I noticed his behavior start to deteriorate, I criticized him and I immediately became on of his many "harassers." I was on his shitlist. That's when he began posting many lies about me, so I returned fire and posted some lies back. No, he's probably not a woman, nor an anti, nor is he likely with LEO. He's most likely just what he says he is: a BL with lots of life experiences. I think he has a genuinely good heart when he doesn't feel threatened, but get on his bad side and look out! See, he also has some very strong personality traits that are out of his control. Hey, everyone has weaknesses. But martir's weaknesses make him a danger in this environment. The most dangerous thing is, in his mind, he can do no wrong. You're either with him, or you're against him. There's no in-between. So if you end up becoming his buddy, be extremely careful. If you disagree with him on something or tell him that you thought that he did something that wasn't right, he will turn on you. If he turns on you, he will feel completely justified in doing whatever he can to get back at you. He will use any information at his disposal to do his best to smear you, or worse. Once he takes that route, there's no way to make things better with him either, because he will do the online equivalent of putting his fingers in his ears and screaming LA LA LA LA LA LA LA. He will claim to not read anything you post, so he basically puts up a wall. Once you cross him (and it's very easy to do, as many of his once-allies have found out) you will always be on his shitlist. I would even make a truce with him right now if he was up for it, but he will have none of it. So my advice is... sure... talk to him on the board and be friendly, but don't give him any ammunition that he can use against you should he turn on you in the future. If he had any of my real-life info, I'd be an outed BL by now. There is no low that this guy will not stoop to in order to get back at someone for a perceived wrong. Look no farther than this index for evidence of him 'getting back' at me with lots of unprovoked attacks. If you would like to know why he has posting limits in place, feel free to email me and I can explain. The cogs make every effort at keeping this place from becoming 'martir chat' so if you'd like me to explain it to you, we should take it off-board. Note that I will not give you any information about myself and you should give me no information about yourself either. We will just have a discussion about martir. Since you have the Tor browser working now, it's easy to use that to open a webmail account that's separate from your real life. Just make sure that you only register and access it through the Tor browser and you'll remain anonymous. I recommend lavabit.com now that fastmail is closed to free accounts. But they block a lot of Tor nodes from registering so if you get that message, just click on the green Vidalia icon and select "Use a new identity" and then refresh the page. Repeat until you get the signup form. Then you can email me at erminea@ro.ru and I'll give you the whole spiel. Again, welcome! |