Not necessarily

"It is our attraction towards boys that makes us such caring people, does it not?" I don't see the two as being necessarily linked. I do consider myself a caring person, but this is not just towards boys. I tend to be kind to animals and elderly people too, for example. I like to help people in any way i can, if the opportunity arises. I think this is just part of my personality, and whether i was attracted to women, men or young boys, it would be the same. Also you rule out BLs who collect CP as being 'genuine boylovers'. Again i do not see how the two are linked. Many 'genuine BLs' fall into the trap of looking at KP. I am not advocating it and there are very good reasons why they should not seek out CP, but given our complications in being able to express our sexuality in a healthy way, it is no surprise that some BLs turn to graphic pictures, and these can be highly addictive. I don't think it has any bearing on whether they are genuine BLs or not. Other than that i do agree with your first statement!