There's a difference between "theory" and "practice" and I think sometimes you forget this. Just because I don't subscribe to the notion that sex is not NECESSARILY a bad thing (in theory), does not mean it is always advisable to engage in it (in practice). Life has far more complications in store than just the sexual component between the two parties involved, and it doesn't even have anything to do with US as BLs. If a 13yo sucking off a 12yo means the 13yo serves time, and after which is an RSO for life, sex needs to be treated very, very carefully, wouldn't you agree? That doesn't make me a prude, it makes me a realistic pragmatist. C |