...relationship, and then separate for whatever reason, and sometime after that separation the boy becomes brainwashed and convinced that he was, in fact, abused/molested/betrayed, yes, I would argue with that. In that case, the boy's feelings should not stand. Just how is the BL supposed to predict such an about face? Failing to teach a boy that there is an objective reality and not just an inner one of his changeable, personal feelings is not a form of loving him. |