Step in the right direction, I think.

But anyway, what you might be seeing is jealousy... I wouldn't be caught dead creeping boys out in the way he seemed to, though. Condemn is too strong a word for me. Asshole works. The tight-lipped, "I'll cut out my own tongue before spilling beans" attitude takes more than a football game gift and a smile. Almost have to know a boy better than he knows himself, which can take years. It's just too easy to see him as someone who felt entitled and couldn't control himself. He likes boys sexually (I think) and so do I. But there's a difference between us. It's that difference that makes it unappealing to defend him. I wouldn't want a boy being subjected to his behavior, either. I'm just assuming it's all true. Maybe it's not - but I doubt even an innocent verdict would convince me it's not. I refuse to say why. BLues.