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Posted by AK74 on 2012-June-11 21:24:56, Monday
In reply to don't you read anything? posted by Kristofor on 2012-June-11 18:33:01, Monday
... to ignore societal pressures (conscious and unconscious) and say alleged honest recollections are unfalsifiable is naive.

Don't get me wrong, there are definitely true cases of abuse. However assuming this case is abuse JUST BECAUSE there was sexual contact is part of the problem in this society.

Was she crying? Pushing his hands away? Saying "no!"? Showing any signs of discomfort? The article doesn't say.

Did you know as a child I had a sexual interaction with another child? I loved it at first, sought it out, then my parents found out and freaked out. Then I convinced myself I did not want it, that I did something wrong and bad, dirty and awful. Finally, I realized that it was the adults around me, and the society I live in, telling me that it was bad. I had to convince myself it was so.

Am I saying that it is just like that in all cases? Absolutely not, but I can bet it is like that in many of the cases.


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