I specifically found a therapist who had dealt a lot with queer issues and he was really supportive of me. They are out there! For me I had to sign a waiver at the beginning that said explicitly under what circumstances he would have to report me, and we were able to talk openly after that. It was really nice. My BL was the reason I found this therapist in the first place, so my situation is a bit different from yours. It's a risk, I guess, but it is possible for it to go well. |