It is not "okay" to tell him. Depending on what the laws are in your area, he may be required to report you. This particular genie is one that, once out of the bottle can never be put back in again, and has the power to destroy your life. Confession is not "good for the soul" and the short period of pseudo relief you feel from "getting it off your chest" will not be worth the lifetime of possible consequences that may result. Don't do it. Just don't. All human unhappiness comes from not facing reality exactly as it is--Buddha |